How to Add Friends on ThisVid: A Complete Guide

ThisVid is a video-sharing platform with a social layer built in — users can follow creators, interact with content, and build connections with other members. If you're new to the platform or just figuring out how its social features work, understanding how friend requests and connections function is the first step.

What "Adding Friends" Actually Means on ThisVid

ThisVid uses a friend/contact system rather than a pure follower model. This means connections can be mutual — both users acknowledge the relationship — unlike a simple subscribe or follow where only one party initiates and the other has no say.

When you add someone as a friend on ThisVid, you're sending a request. The other user can accept or decline. Once accepted, both accounts appear in each other's friends list, which can affect what content you see from that person and what they can see from you depending on their privacy settings.

This distinction matters: following someone and friending them are not always the same action on the platform. Some users configure their accounts to share certain content only with confirmed friends, so the friend relationship unlocks access that a basic follow does not.

Step-by-Step: How to Send a Friend Request on ThisVid

The process is straightforward once you know where to look:

  1. Log in to your ThisVid account. You must be signed in — you cannot send friend requests as a guest.
  2. Navigate to the user's profile. You can find profiles by searching usernames, clicking on names in video comments, or browsing through videos they've uploaded.
  3. Locate the "Add Friend" button. On a user's profile page, this typically appears near their profile image or alongside other action buttons like "Subscribe" or "Send Message."
  4. Click "Add Friend." This sends a pending request to the other user.
  5. Wait for acceptance. Your request sits as pending until the other user logs in and responds. You won't be listed as friends until they confirm.

Once accepted, the connection appears in both users' friends lists, accessible from profile settings or the account dashboard.

Variables That Affect How Friend Requests Work 👥

Not every user's experience will be identical. Several factors shape how this process plays out:

Account privacy settings — Some users set their profiles to restrict incoming friend requests, meaning the button may not appear or requests may be filtered. If you don't see an "Add Friend" option, the account may have disabled that feature.

Account age and activity — Newer or less active accounts occasionally face platform-side restrictions on social features. If you've just created an account, some interaction features may be limited until the account establishes a basic activity history.

Whether you've been blocked — If a user has blocked your account, you won't be able to view their full profile or send requests. This isn't always visually obvious.

Desktop vs. mobile browser — ThisVid's interface can behave differently depending on how you're accessing it. The full suite of social features tends to be more accessible through a desktop browser. On mobile, some buttons may be repositioned or less visible depending on screen size and browser rendering.

Managing Incoming Friend Requests

If other users are sending you requests, you'll typically find a notifications section or a friends/contacts section in your account dashboard. From there you can:

  • Accept requests to confirm the connection
  • Decline requests you don't want to act on
  • Review your current friends list and remove connections if needed

Keeping your friends list managed is relevant if you use privacy settings that restrict certain content to friends only — an outdated or unintended connection may affect who can see what.

What Changes After You're Connected

Once a friend connection is confirmed, a few things may shift depending on how both accounts are configured:

FeatureWithout Friend ConnectionWith Friend Connection
Viewing public videos✅ Available✅ Available
Viewing friends-only content❌ Restricted✅ Accessible
MessagingVaries by settingsOften enabled
Appearing in friends list
Activity visibilityLimitedPotentially broader

The actual impact depends heavily on how each individual user has configured their account privacy. Two users with fully public profiles may notice little practical difference. Two users with restricted settings will notice a significant one.

Common Reasons a Friend Request Might Not Go Through

  • The user has turned off friend requests in their privacy settings
  • Your account has been flagged or restricted by the platform
  • A pending request already exists and hasn't been acted on yet
  • The user's account has been deactivated or removed
  • You're attempting to add someone who has already blocked your account

If the button is missing entirely, it's almost always a privacy setting on the receiving end rather than a platform bug. 🔍

The Spectrum of Use Cases

How much the friend system matters to you varies widely based on what you're doing on the platform. A user who uploads content and wants to share certain videos with a trusted group will have very different priorities around friend management than someone who's purely browsing public content casually.

Users who engage heavily in the community — commenting, uploading, and participating in social features — tend to find the friend system more central to their experience. For passive viewers, it's largely optional.

Your own activity level, content preferences, and how you've configured your privacy settings will determine whether building out a friends list meaningfully changes what the platform looks like for you. 🎯