How to Add a Friend on Pinterest: Finding, Following, and Connecting with People

Pinterest works a little differently from most social platforms. There's no "friend request" system in the traditional sense — no pending approvals, no mutual confirmation. Instead, Pinterest is built around following, which is a one-directional relationship. You follow someone, they follow you back (or they don't), and your feeds populate accordingly.

That said, there are several clear ways to find and connect with people you know on Pinterest, and the experience varies depending on which device you're using and how the person has set up their account.

How Pinterest's Social System Actually Works

Before diving into the steps, it's worth understanding the model. On Pinterest:

  • Following someone means their Pins show up in your home feed
  • The person you follow does not need to follow you back
  • There are no "friend" labels, mutual connection requirements, or approval workflows
  • Anyone with a public account can be followed by anyone else

This makes Pinterest more similar to Twitter/X or Instagram than to Facebook. You're not adding a friend — you're subscribing to someone's content. If they also follow you, you have a mutual connection, but Pinterest doesn't treat that differently from a one-way follow.

How to Follow Someone on Pinterest (Mobile App)

The Pinterest mobile app is the most common way people use the platform. Here's how to find and follow someone:

  1. Open Pinterest and tap the search icon (magnifying glass) at the bottom of the screen
  2. Type the person's name or username into the search bar
  3. Tap People in the filter options that appear below the search bar
  4. Find the correct profile in the results and tap on it
  5. Tap the red Follow button on their profile

If you want to follow specific boards rather than their entire account, tap into a board and hit Follow there instead. This gives you more control over what appears in your feed. 📌

How to Follow Someone on Pinterest (Desktop)

On a desktop browser:

  1. Go to pinterest.com and make sure you're logged in
  2. Use the search bar at the top and type the person's name
  3. Click People from the filter options
  4. Click on the profile you want to follow
  5. Click the Follow button on their profile page

The desktop experience is nearly identical to mobile in terms of functionality, though the layout is wider and boards are displayed in a grid format.

Finding Friends by Connecting Other Accounts

If you're not sure what username your friend uses on Pinterest, you can find people from your existing contact lists using Pinterest's built-in sync tools.

Facebook Contacts

Pinterest has historically offered a way to find friends through Facebook. If you connected your Facebook account to Pinterest, the platform could surface people from your Facebook network who are also on Pinterest. This feature's availability has changed over time and may depend on your region and account settings.

Email/Phone Contacts (Mobile)

In the Pinterest app, you can sometimes allow access to your phone contacts. Pinterest will cross-reference email addresses or phone numbers and surface Pinterest accounts associated with them.

To check what's available for your account:

  1. Go to your profile iconSettings
  2. Look for Social Permissions or Linked Accounts
  3. Review the options for connecting contacts or syncing with other platforms

Variables That Affect Your Experience

Not every user has the same set of options, and several factors shape how easy it is to find and follow someone on Pinterest:

VariableHow It Affects Connecting
Account privacy settingsPrivate accounts can't be followed without approval; public accounts can be followed freely
Username clarityCommon names are harder to search; usernames are more reliable
App versionOlder app versions may not have the latest People search filters
Linked accountsUsers who've connected Facebook or Google are more discoverable
Region/account ageSome sync features vary by region or account type

What Happens After You Follow Someone

Once you follow a person, their public Pins will begin appearing in your home feed. If they have multiple boards, you can selectively follow only certain boards if their full output isn't relevant to you.

Pinterest will typically notify the person that you followed them — but it's a passive notification, not a request that requires a response.

If you want to collaborate more directly, Pinterest also has a feature called collaborative boards (sometimes called group boards), where multiple users can save Pins to the same board. This requires an invitation from the board owner, so it's a step beyond just following.

When You Can't Find Someone

A few reasons a person might not appear in search:

  • Their account is set to private
  • They've blocked you or have limited discoverability settings enabled
  • They're using a display name that doesn't match what you're searching
  • Their account was deactivated or hasn't been active long enough to appear in suggestions

Asking for their direct Pinterest profile URL or exact username outside of Pinterest (via text, email, etc.) is often the most reliable way to find someone you know personally. 🔍

The Difference Between Following a Person and Following a Board

This distinction matters more on Pinterest than on most platforms:

  • Following a person subscribes you to all of their public boards and future Pins
  • Following a board subscribes you only to that specific board

If someone you know Pins across wildly different topics — home renovation, recipe ideas, and travel photography — but you only care about one area, following a single board keeps your feed relevant without the noise of their other content.

The right approach depends entirely on how much of someone's activity aligns with what you actually want to see in your feed — which is something only you can assess based on how you use Pinterest and what you want your home feed to look like.